Be like the sun, radiant and unapologetic of your nature

How often do you walk into a room, or a relationship, and say “This is me! Take it or leave it.”? Our tendency is to mould ourselves or others so that there is a fit between us but in doing this, we dull our light.

We are uniquely individual and radiant beings. When we learn who we are at a deep level and are able to bring this to every interaction, we become a healing force in this world. Stepping into our core, being radiant, gives others’ permission to do the same and there is nothing more healing than chilling out in your core.

Relationships are often fraught with conflict and heartbreak as we try to mould others to fit with us or judge them for the way they are. I am sure that everyone has been in a relationship where they feel unseen, unheard or unloved. You may have even stayed in these relationships for a long time not knowing that you deserved more.

The ideal relationship is one where you can be yourself 24/7 and the other person accepts all of you – the good, the bad and the ugly. They still love you even when you’re having a bad day. They celebrate your victories with you and comfort you through your losses. They really see you and listen to what you have to say. You do the same for them in return.

You may not have the ideal relationship with another yet, but you can have it any time you choose with yourself. Don’t apologise for the things that make you unique, celebrate them. Bring your vibrant, radiant self to everything you do and every interaction you have. With your presence (not necessarily out loud) say “This is me! Take it or leave it.” If necessary, move on until you find people who decide to “take it” and love you just as you are.

~ Amanda Cartridge ~